15 Warning Signs That You're Raising an Entitled Child

Do you sometimes feel like your child is a little too demanding?

If so, you may be raising an entitled child. Entitled children have a sense of entitlement – they believe that they are owed something simply because they exist.

This can be a difficult trait to deal with, and it can cause problems in both the short-term and the long term. In this blog post, we will discuss some of the warning signs that you're raising an entitled child. We will also provide some tips for dealing with this situation.

1. They Don't Like To Hear "No."

If you find that your child is constantly throwing tantrums or otherwise acting out when they don't get their way, this is a warning sign that they may be entitled. Entitled children have difficulty dealing with disappointment, and they often expect to always get what they want. As a result, they often lash out when they don't get their way.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to be firm with your child. Explain to them that they cannot always have what they want and that sometimes they will have to deal with disappointment. It's also important to provide positive reinforcement when they do manage to cope with disappointment in a healthy way.

2. They're Constantly Comparing Themselves to Others

Another warning sign of entitlement is constantly comparing oneself to others. Entitled children often feel like they deserve more than others, and as a result, they are always looking for ways to prove that they are better than everyone else. This can manifest in a number of different ways, such as bragging about their possessions or achievements or putting others down in order to make themselves feel better.

If you notice your child doing this, it's important to have a conversation with them about it. Explain to them that everyone is different and that they should be happy with what they have. Help them to understand that comparing themselves to others is only going to make them feel bad.

3. They Have a Sense of Entitlement

Of course, one of the most obvious warning signs that you're raising an entitled child is if they have a sense of entitlement. This can manifest in a number of different ways, such as always expecting to be given things without having to work for them or feeling like they are owed something simply because they exist.

If you notice your child exhibiting these behaviors, it's important to have a talk with them about it. Explain to them that the world doesn't work that way and that they need to learn to be grateful for what they have.

Help them to understand that entitled behavior is often off-putting to others and can lead to problems in the future.

4. They're Always Seeking Attention

Another warning sign of entitlement is always seeking attention. Entitled children often feel like they are the center of the universe, and as a result, they constantly need to be in the spotlight. This can manifest in a number of different ways, such as always needing to be the center of attention or always needing to be praised for their accomplishments.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to provide your child with attention when they deserve it. However, you should also make sure to make them understand that they are not the center of the universe. They need to learn to share the spotlight and to be happy for others when they succeed.

5. They Have a Hard Time Coping With Failure

Another warning sign of entitlement is having a hard time coping with failure. Entitled children often expect to always be successful, and as a result, they have difficulty dealing with setbacks. This can manifest in a number of different ways, such as becoming easily frustrated when things don't go their way or giving up easily when faced with a challenge.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to help your child understand that failure is a part of life. Explain to them that everyone makes mistakes and that it's okay to fail occasionally. Help them to see failure as an opportunity to learn and grow, rather than something to be avoided at all costs.

6. They're Never Satisfied

Another warning sign of entitlement is never being satisfied. Entitled children often feel like they deserve more than they have, and as a result, they are always looking for ways to get more. This can manifest in a number of different ways, such as always wanting the latest and greatest toys or constantly asking for more food even when they're already full.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to help your child understand that there is more to life than just material possessions. Explain to them that it's important to be grateful for what they have and that it's okay to be content with less. Help them to understand that being greedy is never a good thing and that they should focus on other things in life besides acquiring more stuff.

7. They're Manipulative

Another warning sign of entitlement is manipulation. Entitled children often feel like they are entitled to get their way, and as a result, they will often try to manipulate those around them to get what they want. This can manifest in a number of different ways, such as trying to guilt-trip people into doing what they want or using their charms to get people to do things for them.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to help your child understand that manipulation is never an acceptable way to get what they want. Explain to them that they need to learn to communicate openly and honestly with others if they want them to do something for them. Help them to see that manipulation is often off-putting and can lead to problems in their relationships.

8. They Don't Do Regular Chores Around The House.

Another warning sign of entitlement is not doing regular chores around the house. Entitled children often feel like they are above doing mundane tasks, and as a result, they will often shirk their responsibilities when it comes to things like cleaning up their room or taking out the trash.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to help your child understand that everyone has to do chores, even them. Explain to them that doing chores is a part of life, and it's important to pitch in and help out around the house. You can read our blog post on 15 ways to develop a sense of responsibility in your child.

Help them to see that by doing their fair share of the work, they can make things easier for everyone involved.

9. They Think That Things Will Always Be Fair and In Their Favor

One of the most telltale signs of entitlement is thinking that things should always be fair and in their favor. Entitled children often feel like they deserve special treatment, and as a result, they will often throw tantrums or become easily frustrated when things don't go their way. This can manifest in a number of different ways, such as becoming angry when they don't get their way or expecting others to always do things for them.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to help your child understand that life isn't always fair. Explain to them that sometimes people have to do things that they don't want to do and that not everything will always go their way. Help them to see that by learning to roll with the punches, they can become more resilient and adaptable people.

10. Their Behavior Makes You Think; You Should Be More Strict

If you find yourself constantly thinking that you should be stricter with your child, it's likely a sign that they are becoming entitled. Entitled children often need stricter boundaries and discipline in order to help them learn to respect other people and their belongings.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to have a talk with your child about their behavior. Explain to them why their behavior is unacceptable, and help them to understand that they need to make some changes if they want to continue being a part of the family.

11. You Want To Make Them Happy, Even If It Means Doing Something Unethical.

One of the most dangerous signs of entitlement is when parents start to feel like they need to do whatever it takes to make their child happy, even if it means breaking the law or bending the rules. This can often happen when parents feel like their child is not getting what they deserve, and as a result, they will go to extreme lengths to try and give them what they want.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to take a step back and reassess your priorities. Ask yourself whether or not your child's happiness is worth more than your ethical principles.

If the answer is no, then you need to be willing to put your foot down and say no to your child, even if it means they won't be happy with you in the short term.

12. They Don't Know How To Handle Disappointment.

One of the most common signs of entitlement is not knowing how to handle disappointment. Entitled children often expect things to always go their way, and as a result, they can become easily disappointed when things don't go according to plan. This can manifest in a number of different ways, such as throwing tantrums, becoming withdrawn or depressed, or lashing out at others.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to help your child learn how to deal with disappointment. Explain to them that life isn't always fair and that sometimes things don't go according to plan.

Help them to see that by learning how to deal with disappointment, they can become more resilient and adaptable people.

13. They Feel the Need to Be Praised, and You Feel That You Have To Praise Them for Everything

One of the most telltale signs of entitlement is a need to be praised for everything. Entitled children often feel like they are owed praise and attention, and as a result, they will often seek it out by behaving in certain ways. This can manifest in a number of different ways, such as always needing to be the center of attention or always needing to be praised for their accomplishments.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to help your child understand that not everything they do deserves praise. Explain to them that sometimes it's more important to focus on the effort they put into something rather than the result. Help them to see that by learning to be more humble, they can become more likable and down-to-earth people.

14. They Don't Show Gratitude.

One of the most important things that parents can instill in their children is a sense of gratitude. Gratitude is an essential character trait that helps people to appreciate what they have, rather than always wanting more. Unfortunately, entitled children often lack this trait, and as a result, they can come across as ungrateful or spoiled.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to help your child understand the importance of gratitude. Explain to them that by being grateful for what they have, they can become more content and happier people. Help them to see that by learning to appreciate what they have, they can avoid becoming entitled and spoiled.

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15. They Are Overindulged In Material Goods

One of the most obvious signs of entitlement is when children are overindulged in material goods. This often happens when parents feel like they need to give their children everything they want in order to make them happy. As a result, these children can often become spoiled and entitled, expecting to always get their way.

If you find yourself in this situation, it's important to reassess your priorities. Ask yourself whether or not your child's happiness is worth more than teaching them ethical principles. If the answer is no, then you need to be willing to put your foot down and say no to your child, even if it means they won't be happy with you in the short term.

Steps You Should Take To Handle An Entitled Child

1. Encourage them to be honest.
2. Don't cover for them unfairly.
3. Limit their access to material goods.
4. Don't always be their friend; sometimes be strict parents: It is for their own good.
5. Teach them the value of doing hard work.
6. Teach them to be grateful and to show gratitude
7. Set a limited allowance
8. Give them responsibilities and chores around the rules.
9. Don't break your rules, and be consistent with them.

Final Thoughts

Entitlement is a dangerous character trait that can lead to a number of problems in children. If you think your child might be entitled, it's important to take action and help them to learn how to be more humble and grateful people. By taking the steps outlined above, you can help your child to avoid becoming an entitled adult.

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